The Impact of Dividing Debts at Divorce
Allison Gerli • September 22, 2020
What Happens To Debt After Divorce? Who is Responsible? What You Need To Know.
You and your spouse may have accumulated debts of various types during the course of your marriage. If so, you are probably concerned about how to divide those debts and what the consequences will be if the debts are not paid, particularly if you do not trust that your spouse will be responsible about making payments.
If a debt was undertaken by you and your spouse jointly (generally the case for home mortgage and car loans, and often the case for credit cards), you and your spouse probably are jointly and severally liable
for payment of that debt. This means that the creditor can pursue either or both of you to obtain payment.
The creditor (bank, mortgage company, department store, credit card company, etc.)
is not a party to your dissolution of marriage proceeding. In the divorce settlement, the debts will be allocated between you and your spouse by agreement or, if you have a trial, the Judge will order who is responsible for each debt.
Despite the allocation of debt in a divorce judgment, debts in joint names will remain in joint names, unless the person the debt is allocated removes the other party from responsibility. The creditor is not bound by any agreements reached between the two of you as to who is responsible post-divorce, nor is it bound by a court order as to who is responsible for the debt. A creditor can still pursue either you or your spouse for an unpaid debt, regardless of who the court designates to pay the debt.
As a result, it is important to understand that, even when a court specifically orders that one party is solely responsible for payment of a home mortgage or other loan or other debt, if both parties’ names remain on the loan or debt, both parties remain responsible for its payment. Transfer of the title of your home by quitclaim or other deed does not in any way alter your obligation under an existing mortgage loan.
The divorce judgment may include an indemnification and hold harmless clause. Typically, these provisions are used so that a party who agrees or is ordered to pay a certain debt is responsible for reimbursing the other party if the other party ends up paying the debt instead. Although these clauses do provide you with recourse through the courts should your former spouse fail to pay a debt, as a practical matter, if the creditor has been unable to collect form your former spouse, your chances of doing so are not much better. Your goal should be to reduce the risk of problems related to the marital debt post-divorce.
What To Consider When Settling Your Case
If you are hoping to settle your case, it is important to consider your spouse’s likelihood to responsibly pay the debt that is allocated in the settlement. The spouse’s failure to pay, or failure to pay on time, can affect your credit rating and of course impact you in other ways.
Sometimes parties agree to delay selling or refinancing the house for a period of years so that one of the spouses can remain in it after the divorce. Often that spouse is not able to qualify to refinance at the time of divorce. If you are the non-resident spouse and you are considering this option, you need to consider what this could mean if you want to purchase a residence or take on some other large debt before the time for your spouse to refinance or sell the home arrives. The obligation on the mortgage may result in your being denied credit, even if your spouse is paying the mortgage on time. This is something that we may need to discuss as settlement options are generated.
It may be important for both spouses to obtain credit reports to ensure all debt is being disclosed and addressed as part of the divorce process. This is something that can be requested of both parties to a divorce.
Please discuss your current debt situation with your attorney so that the appropriate measures such as closing accounts may be taken to protect your credit rating and preserve martial assets. You need to be aware of all outstanding debts when preparing settlement options or proposing how property and debt will be divided at trial.
If you have questions or concerns about your situation, the
attorneys at The Center for Family Law are here to help.
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The Center for Family Law is proud to announce that Ann Bauer has once again been named the “Lawyer of the Year” in Collaborative Family Law in St. Louis by Best Lawyers for 2026. Each year, this designation is awarded to only one attorney in each practice area and region, based on outstanding peer feedback—making it a truly exceptional distinction. This marks Ann’s third year being recognized as "Lawyer of the Year" for her work in collaborative divorce, and her 12th year being recognized by Best Lawyers. For 2026, she is listed for her work in family law, family law mediation, and collaborative law. Ann is an active member of the St. Louis Collaborative Family Law Association and is deeply committed to the collaborative divorce process, valuing the positive and lasting impact it has on her clients and their families. About the Collaborative Divorce Process Collaborative divorce is a respectful legal process that enables couples to resolve all aspects of their divorce—such as property division, child custody, child support, and spousal support—without litigation. Using a team-based approach, which includes attorneys for each spouse, a financial neutral, and a mental health professional, couples work together through negotiation and mediation to reach agreements without the stress and conflict of court. Learn more on the St. Louis Collaborative Family Law Association website by clicking here . About Best Lawyers Since 1983, Best Lawyers has been recognized as one of the most respected guides to legal excellence. Attorneys selected for The Best Lawyers in America are nominated and evaluated by their peers based on professional expertise and undergo a rigorous verification process to ensure they are in current practice and in good standing. About The Center for Family Law Founded in 2013, The Center for Family Law provides comprehensive representation in all areas of family law, with a culture built on partnership with our clients and other professionals. We believe the role of a lawyer is to partner with clients, help them understand their options, and give them the information and confidence they need to make well-informed decisions. To schedule a consultation, click here .
The Center for Family Law is pleased to announce that Robert Boedeker has joined the firm as of July 2025 as an attorney of counsel. Robert is a 2011 graduate of St. Louis University School of Law. For the past ten years, he has worked at Legal Services of Eastern Missouri, Inc. in the Lasting Solutions Family Law Program, which he co-managed since 2017. At The Center for Family Law, Robert will continue to practice law on family matters and order of protection cases in St. Louis County, St. Louis City, St. Charles County and Jefferson County. Additionally, he is a certified family law Guardian ad Litem and Mediator, and is looking to resume those areas of practice. “Joining The Center for Family Law allows me to dedicate myself again to just representing clients,” said Robert. “At Legal Services, I was dividing my time between clients and my management duties. I am excited to get back to mediating and representing children’s best interests; at Legal Services, often mediation was inappropriate for clients because of the serious domestic violence they were escaping.” He continued, “I loved my time at Legal Services and the clients and colleagues I worked with. But I am now looking forward to focusing just on the courtroom and mediation work. The attorneys at The Center for Family Law have the same passion for serving clients and a wealth of experience that I am grateful to be able to bring to my cases.” “Working in family law is meaningful and can be life-changing for our clients,” said Robert, “and I am glad to join a firm with the right balance of prioritizing conflict-resolution and defending their clients’ interests when needed.” The Center for Family Law welcomes Robert to the team, knowing his experience and personality make him a good fit to continue the firm’s tradition of collaboration and finding solutions for people in need.